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What is Cutting?
Cutting: The act of being cut for a kind of momentary relief.
Inside subject:
Our instinct tells you when something can hurt us, is to go back and protect yourself.But when there is a psychological disorder in the way, it can get quite confused.Today, it is common to hear of OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder), a drive to always do the same thing over and over. Sometimes this impulse is so strong that a person can end up becoming his hostage.
The cutting is a self-mutilation - a practice in which a person is injured with no intention of committing suicide - which turns into a true vicious cycle. This repetition comes from the super-TOCs and is related to self-esteem. When a person feels great pain, if he thinks too much, or even hate, self-destructive behavior can arise.
It is proven that the greatest number of people who cut themselves is between 13 and 20 years, that period of insecurities and tendencies to give up influence.
No way!
If you already practice some form of self-mutilation - even very lightly - or have felt the urge to do this, open your eyes!
Do activities that can improve your self-esteem and always talk to those who offer support to you. Expressing your emotions is perfectly healthy and prevents depression or extreme behavior. Remember - if: the only way to get rid of a problem is sharing - with your family and your friends!
What to Do?
Learn the first steps to take when you identify the cutting of a friend or family:
- Show no surprise: This may make the person feel abnormal and rejects, which can further aggravate the situation;
- Ask to Birth: Try to listen more than talk and show understanding for their problems;
- No threat: Do not judge people without knowing their reasons and not blackmail, saying he will tell everyone if she did not stop;
- Ask a doctor visit: Only a professional can get an effective treatment for this behavior
Source: Yes! Teen (Edition March 2011)
Inside subject:
Our instinct tells you when something can hurt us, is to go back and protect yourself.But when there is a psychological disorder in the way, it can get quite confused.Today, it is common to hear of OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder), a drive to always do the same thing over and over. Sometimes this impulse is so strong that a person can end up becoming his hostage.
The cutting is a self-mutilation - a practice in which a person is injured with no intention of committing suicide - which turns into a true vicious cycle. This repetition comes from the super-TOCs and is related to self-esteem. When a person feels great pain, if he thinks too much, or even hate, self-destructive behavior can arise.
It is proven that the greatest number of people who cut themselves is between 13 and 20 years, that period of insecurities and tendencies to give up influence.
No way!
If you already practice some form of self-mutilation - even very lightly - or have felt the urge to do this, open your eyes!
Do activities that can improve your self-esteem and always talk to those who offer support to you. Expressing your emotions is perfectly healthy and prevents depression or extreme behavior. Remember - if: the only way to get rid of a problem is sharing - with your family and your friends!
What to Do?
Learn the first steps to take when you identify the cutting of a friend or family:
- Show no surprise: This may make the person feel abnormal and rejects, which can further aggravate the situation;
- Ask to Birth: Try to listen more than talk and show understanding for their problems;
- No threat: Do not judge people without knowing their reasons and not blackmail, saying he will tell everyone if she did not stop;
- Ask a doctor visit: Only a professional can get an effective treatment for this behavior
Source: Yes! Teen (Edition March 2011)
What is Bullying?
Bullying comes from the word bully, which means 'thug'. They are physical and psychological abuse of an aggressor against the victim. "Until the 70's, was not interpreted as violence, but it was part of social relations and the maturation of children, or even as a joke," said Cleo Fante, a researcher on the subject. This act involves nicknames, rumors, threats, criticism, isolation and physical aggression.
School
Often the victim gets to be targeted from the 5th and 6th grade of elementary school.These are not mere "pranks" of bad taste, after all, the bullying goes beyond the psychological or physical limits. The student feels powerless in the situation and is at bay, and did not find anything fun about it.
On the internet
The Internet is an easy place to depreciation of the victim. You can create fake profiles and blogs, spread gossip, photos, putting this person in very embarrassing.Then, when she leaves home and goes to school, for example, ends up being the target of several comments.
At work
Called the bullying, the adult version of bullying can come both the head and co-workers. Persecution and closely marked in time to perform the function or unfounded criticisms are some forms of abuse committed in the environment.
Get a grip!
Learn to put yourself, and not impose itself prove an easy prey. Who applies the bullying is because they want to hide an insecurity and seeking a victim that is easy to fill the bag.
What to do:
Children and young people should tell the parents and school officials. Among adults, the ideal is to write down the date, time and place have been abused and, if possible, gather witnesses. If the bullying continues, he may go to court.
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